I realized that much of my life was spent examining issues that didn't exist and pursuing goals that were based on a false premise and someone else's agenda.
First and foremost, I became less judgmental of myself and less narcissistic and realized that I was not responsible for saving/enlightening the whole world nor was I capable of it. God's personal happiness and the fate of the whole world was not revolving around me and my minuscule life.
I have my own standards that I live by and I let others have theirs, even if they're not necessarily what I would do. If they ask me, I'll tell them why but otherwise, it's none of my business.
Guess what? nothing in this world change except that I now have more peace of mind because I'm good enough for God or anybody, just as I am.
If there is a God and he does have a future plan in store for mankind, there's no reason I shouldn't be included in it.